jag-me-baby:

psych2go:

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The second one is VERY important; *** being ostracized is more mentally damaging than being bullied. ***

Don’t know how many ways I can say this; being told “go away”, ignored completely when you speak, being chosen last for teams all say “you are worthless to us”

Kids think they are being nicer by not picking on someone that annoys them, and they are right. However, at least when a child is being picked on, however horribly, it means their existence has been noticed and has caused a reaction.

The cool kids hate it when the teachers pick the teams or assign students to work together in group. The ostracized kids are always relieved (of course by this point many would rather work alone after years of being rebuffed). 

We need to teach our children not only to not bully and belittle, but to also be inclusive; to respond in some sort of non-negative way to kids they would rather ignore. It’s not easy, but being told by a peer that they are worthy of positive notice could improve - and maybe even save - a life.

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2 days ago 79,472 notes

marguerite26:

drop-deaddream:

"And these are your only two options?"

How many times do you think Peggy has looked at a no-win scenario in her life and said those exact words? 

Growing up she learned she could either be a mother or a wife. Trying to help the war effort she learned she could either be a nurse or work in weapons production. In 1946 she was told she could either become a glorified secretary or find a job outside intelligence.

Peggy Carter spends her entire life finding ways to circumvent the box. She’s looked society in the face, and over and over again she’s challenged it, questioned it, and outsmarted it, even triumphed over it. And it’s because she has the audacity, always, to raise her eyebrow and refuse to be silenced, and because she isn’t ever too afraid to ask the question that matters to her most: and these are your only two options?

This is glorious because, well… I know women like this. We all do. We all know women who look at the shit choices life has given them and say: Are these my only options? I will make my own then. And this is why Peggy is my fav. She is kick ass and brilliant and walks into a room and everyone turns. But also she is a hero that I can relate to, believe in, strive to become. She looks at the world around her and says, I want better, I deserve better and she changes the rules of the game. And while she’s doing it, she’ll inspire you to do the same for yourself.

Now that’s a hero I’ll follow into battle any day, because she’s real and if I watch her closely, she’ll teach me how to lead the next time.

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3 days ago 3,481 notes

ataoldotcom:

detodossantos:

sizvideos:

Watch it in video

This. This is how you break down ableist barriers. This is incredible for the deaf and for the custies. I would love to learn sign language, and I would learn it faster if it was standing between me and booze

this is so important

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5 days ago 381,750 notes

rinsfw:

the saga continues

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5 days ago 27,046 notes
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uaintkawaiibitch:

danieltflynn:

this is the first animation I’ve done in a year

And you’ve done well

uaintkawaiibitch:

danieltflynn:

this is the first animation I’ve done in a year

And you’ve done well

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5 days ago 189,814 notes

bipolarshinji:

hbnic:

gingersofficial:

tessaviolet:

w.h.a.t.

The fucking first time

I ALMOST CHOKED

i will reblog this every single time it shows up and if you don’t u dont have a heart

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6 days ago 101,937 notes

peterhollens:

peterhollens:

Hey Hollensfamily! Here’s my first original in about 3 years, it’s about becoming a father, and my little guy Ash.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RwiEOb1zmcs - I really hope you enjoy.   Please share it with your parents, family… anyone that can relate to this amazing experience we get to have in life.

Album is available down below: 

Album iTunes - http://smarturl.it/peter-hollens
Album Amazon Mp3 - http://smarturl.it/peterhollens-amp3
Album Amazon CD - http://smarturl.it/hollenscd
Pledgemusic: http://www.pledgemusic.com/peterhollens

Did you catch my first original song and the new video from today yet?!

6 days ago 252 notes

closettherapist:

trillgamesh:

firefoxshawty:

andrusi:

weeaboobs:

senpaitheking:

That’s not cool Tumblr and you know it, you’re basically forcing people to agree to this bullcrap. 

of course they’re forcing you to agree. if you’re gonna use their services then you have to abide by their rules.

yeah, that’s why it’s called “terms of service”

because they will let you use their service if you agree to their terms

What is the point in forcing you to agree if there is only one option that is so stupid it’s like a presidential election with 1 candidate a complete farce to be honest

Are you guys just not familiar with how websites in general tend to work

"I would like to buy a hamburger."

"Ok, that costs $1."

"I don’t want to pay that."

"Then you can’t have a hamburger."

"Why are you forcing me to agree to this? You’re only giving me one option!"

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1 week ago 132,831 notes

buckybarneswho:

Martha Jones is a black female doctor who Shakespare wrote sonnets about she saved the world using a spell from Harry Potter and then she traveled the world and saved it from the master and she didn’t need something magical about her to save the world
So please explain to me why you hate martha

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1 week ago 21,201 notes

racethewind10:

gaydom:

May the odds be ever in your favor.

Xena would wipe the floor with these ladies

No she wouldn’t, because Xena would point out that the REAL enemy is the Capitol and Gabrielle wouldn’t let her kill the other tributes who were just as much victims as they were so Xena would propose that they take the fight to the Capitol. Jane and Mulan would be like “Fine whatever we just want to protect our girls” and Cara would be like “Do I get to kill peasants? Yes? Excellent. I’m in.” and Kahlan would roll her eyes but its Kahlan and its fighting for a Noble Cause and The Good Of The People so she’d be in. Myka would the one making complicated ‘plans’ with Xena, trying to use their resources most effectively and Helena well… I can see Gabrielle asking Helena what she does and Helena just smiles that not-very-nice-smile and says something like “I cause chaos darling.”  (Helena and Faith would probably get along GREAT). Buffy would vanish for a bit then come back into camp carrying a dozen stakes and when everyone looked at her she’d just be all “what? It’s my weapon.” And hand some to Faith.

And then they would all team up and wipe the floor with the Capitol while Quinn and Rachel provided rousing background music

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1 week ago 2,832 notes